Find Your True North

Compassionate Therapy for Complex Lives

We’ve never had more access to self-help content, endless one-size-fits-all offerings of “how to fix yourself.” And yet, you are unique - your stories, identities, cultures, and experiences have all intersected in you.

Though we may wish for it in times of great uncertainty, we don’t get the Google Maps to our lives. However, we all have a compass. Our values, ethics, passions, our instincts and our unique wonderfulnesses comprise our authentic compass, but sometimes we struggle to trust our inner guides.

Change is possible. Together, we can uncover that which makes you, you and rebuild your trust in yourself.

Specialties include:

  • Are you struggling with a sense of fear or lack of safety? Do you feel easily on edge, unable to relax, or feel easily triggered? Are you feeling stuck in ideas and beliefs about yourself that are holding you back?
    Whether the concept of “trauma” resonates with you or not, what is most important is your understanding of your experience. I’m interested in helping you go deeper, exploring your experience in the context of your identities. We all inherently have multiple sources of wisdom, and my job is to help you build trust with the emotional and embodied wisdom that you hold. Together, we can build an understanding for how your experiences in the past are impacting your current feelings and beliefs. We can move toward finding greater peace in your body and your mind.

  • Do you find yourself feeling on edge, frequently worried, or having difficulty concentrating? Perhaps it’s hard to get to sleep or you notice your mind racing. There are so many reasons we may be feeling anxious. Our past experiences, cultures, and the systems to which we attune and in which we live all help us make sense of our future. Sometimes, those experiences create fear or worry for our future or make it hard to trust ourselves. We don’t get to know the future, but what if you were able to navigate the future with more trust in yourself?

  • It can be incredibly hard and lonely to feel hopeless or despairing. Maybe it feels difficult to complete basic tasks or find the motivation to engage in hobbies. Your authentic self may feel far away, unreachable. Together, we can find your way back to your true self and a sense of hope, helping you return to a place of greater functioning and engagement.

  • Experiencing grief can be profoundly personal and painful. Not all grief and loss is related to death. In fact, so much of our loss throughout life may be far more ambiguous, such as loss of identity, sense of home, loss of hope or a vision for the future, divorce or loss of a relationship. Whether your loss is related to death or not, it is valid. Grief can be complex and sticky, painful and angering, devastating and confusing. You don’t have to weather the storm alone. 

  • You have a unique culture, history and experience, and mix of identities that are individual to you. You never need to justify your identities to me. And, I want to know about your specific history and story. I am curious about what has been therapeutic for you in the past, what your passions are, and how your identities interact with the systems around you.

Ready to Begin?

Schedule your free 15-minute consultation

How Does This Work?

We’ll start with your free 15-minute consultation, where you can decide if I may be right for you and I can better understand if I’m able to meet your needs. During our first session, we’ll further discuss your experiences and goals for therapy. I do not have a one-size-fits-all approach; instead, we’ll work to find the right blend of approaches for your goals and needs.

  • We change in relationship with others. I’m here to get to know you, and it’s important that you get to know and feel safe with me! We’ll center your goals and needs.

  • Whether the concept of trauma resonates with you or not, it’s important that you feel a sense of safety, transparency, and choice and empowerment in our work together.

  • I strive to bring a social justice lens and orientation to my work. As a white, cis-gendered person, I am constantly working to navigate and improve my own relationship with greater systems of oppression. Navigating these systems and structures can also be a focus of our work together.

  • For many, including myself, our understanding of ourselves and our world has been cultivated intellectually, sometimes resulting in years of cognitive therapy that leaves us feeling stuck. While cognitive insight is important, it is only one part of the process. Somatic work focuses on building trust and awareness of our body and the needs it communicates to us.

Approach:

  • Have you ever felt an inner conflict, such as “one part of me wants this, but another part of me wants that?” We are made up of many parts that each hold narratives about us and about the world. We can get to know our own “cast of characters,” notice their stories, and help them rewrite their narratives to find a sense of healing and inner peace.

  • Used in the correct context with the appropriate resources, EMDR is a form of trauma reprocessing that activates neural circuits to allow us to process distressing experiences and reintegrate them with new meaning. As a result, we are able to re-write unhelpful narratives about ourselves and move through life with less shame and pain.

  • What if you are not the problem, but the problem is the problem? Your story and identities matter, and they are not separate from the systems and structures around them. Let’s explore sources of healing and hope that resonate with you to re-write your stories. When we can understand ourselves and our stories in new context, we can often find power in our voice and greater trust in ourselves.

Modalities:

It may be that when we no longer know what to do, we have come to our real work, and when we no longer know which way to go, we have begun our real journey. The mind that is not baffled is not employed. The impeded stream is the one that sings. 

—Wendell Berry

Let’s connect

Interested in working together? Fill out the adjacent form or reach out directly, and I will be in touch shortly to schedule a free, 15-minute consultation. I can’t wait to hear from you!

hello@compassandlight.com

(720) 310-8220